If you don't consider a thing useful or beautiful then get rid of it", and this is what I've been trying to do. I suppose I'll just probably collect more junk, but I am trying to, at least, dispose of some things, which I know won't be missed once they're gone. One such item is a textbook, in Spanish of course, on Information Technology from the year dot. Now, with the exception of those blonde days I've been having lately, I'm quite familiar with the contents of this book. I won't throw it away, because maybe there's somebody out there who's a newbie and this book could be useful. Well, I do have a friend who doesn't know how to do most things on the computer, because she's afraid she might break it. Then another friend has three brothers - one who's a computer technician, one who's quite useless and the youngest one who's completely computer illiterate; the latter I find a bit unusual for someone from his generation. One day she mentioned to him about cleaning out the computer to which he answered: 'But it's not dirty!' Why do some of us have more stuff than others? I hope I never become sick like some people and refuse to throw anything away, including spoilt food. You know the kind of people I'm referring to. I think there's one, if not more, TV programmes where the hoarders are convinced by professional organizers to part with some of their rubbish. I can only imagine how unpleasant it would be living in a detached house and having someone like this for a neighbour, but can you imagine having hoarders living in an apartment block? I complain about the smell when someone's frying sardines! Anyway, just to make things clear: I don't think I've got a big problem. It's that I think things like: maybe I'll wear that in the future, or that belonged to my mother or whatever other sentimental reason.
So I've come to the conclusion that there are three things I'm going to pack up today and palm off on someone: the textbook, a jewellery box and a stuffed cat that was my mom's, which I'll give to a child. If I'm successful in parting with three things today, who knows what I'll throw out tomorrow? Oh, and an article on Yahoo tells me I shouldn't go to the Containers Store (can't since we don't have any) and buy all kinds of cool containers. They could have published the article before though as I've ordered some cool boxes from the company Vie (used to be Virgin Vie (I'm sure some of the Brits will know Vie). One thing that won't go in the near future, and I've had it for years, is this unusual dish/dust collector (see photo). It's still beautiful to me.
Brenda, I'm working on the same mission! I want to pare down my belongings to where I can fit into a much smaller space comfortably. Who needs three bedrooms for one person?!
ReplyDeleteOh my gawd when I watch Hoarders I'm in shock. I can not believe that there are people out there living in those conditions. I know I have a lot of stuff, mostly clothes but I'm nothing like that, thank goodness lol. Every few months I go through my closest and whatever I haven't worn for a long time or simply don't want anything I put it all in a big plastic bag and bring it over to Goodwill. I may not want it but someone else could wear it. I do that also with books, sheets, trinkets, etc.
ReplyDeleteDoing the same. Breaking down the clutter anywhere.
ReplyDeleteAnd someone mention to me--computer clutter too. So looking there too
Hoarders are growing--which is why so much on them now.
I have a couple in my family-well off and one thing I notice how clutter free they are. They use their money for travel and people. And they have a great life. Still enjoy their toys (big screen TV and such). And it's a joy to go to stay at their home. Very easy upkeep. Nothing on their tables or dressers.
Clutter really makes are daily job harder.
Books are hard for me-I understand there. I have a 3rd year speller and math book from my grandmother. Interesting in a way as it like our 6th grade now. Makes me wonder -what happened--aren't we suppose to be more progressive?
Mentioning trinckets above--there is another area--cups, dishes, sheets (how many sets do we need?) etc. Just saw a article on that. Do we need all these novelty cups or just a set of a nice 12?
Great post--I don't think mine is out of control but one I should control more. Thank you for reminder. I'll hit something today and toss
Some like flylady (a web site about ridding ourselves of clutter)
Looks like we're all trying to do the same. That's very encouraging. I live in a one-bedroom apartment, which mostly belongs to me (don't know if the bank would agree), but when I lived in a two-bedroom, the second one was my junk/storage room. Yes, I basically use two sets of sheets because they're the ones I like. I haven't bought sheets for years though. However, if I could find the same quality as one of the two sets, I'd probably buy them. My other favourite set is Egyptian cotton and cotton gets softer as it is used. I'll check out flylady.Thanks. As for my computer I keep it at least up to date. I spent more time updating the end-of-life programs yesterday on two computers yesterday than I did on cleaning. I know I probably have lots of old documents that need to be got rid of, but I'll do that when I have time.
ReplyDeleteMaybe we should start a De-clutter Group?
The dish is beautiful. I was hoping you weren't getting rid of it! I just cleaned out the freezer, and found some frozen turkey from Thanksgiving 2008 in the back of it. It was way past time to make room for fresh. I am so bad about stuffing things in there to use later, and later never comes. Cleaned out the pantry a few months ago, and found the same mess. Have been doing a good job keeping it organized, and will try hard with the freezer now too. Don't even open the closet in our guest room. I am not a "hoarder" like some of those people on TV, but I do keep way too much junk. Three things a day..... good idea!
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ReplyDeleteI started decluttering last weekend!! keep going Brenda it gets easier, I was actually looking at things that had been bought as presents, but they really werent me, and thinking why am I keeping this and out it went!!
ReplyDeleteI love the dish above!!
I highly recommend www.flylady.net. She has great ideas and motivations for de-cluttering.
ReplyDeleteThis is a subject I feel very strongly, passionately, and personally about. My parents grew up during the Great Depression, and it affected my father quite seriously. He slowly became a hoarder over the years, to the point that he "filled up" the house I grew up in and my mother basically said "either clean it out or we have to buy a new house." So they bought a new house, with the intention that he would eventually clean out the old one and they would sell it. Well, 5 years later, Dad just hadn't been able to deal with the mess, his health had declined, he had a massive stroke, and died 4 days later. We kids spent the entire summer cleaning out the house. You wouldn't believe the stuff he saved....empty 2-liter soda bottles and jars, boxes and boxes of rubber bands, every magazine he'd ever received in the mail, plastic bags....oh, I could go on. And as carefully as all the junk was packed away, then we'd find a box of old priceless photographs that were just thrown together and the heat had them stuck to each other. But we knew there were a few treasures in the trash, so we had to go through EVERY BOX piece by piece. We filled up about 7 city trash trailers, but we found my mother's wedding & engagement rings and other things that we were afraid were lost forever. So it was worth all the effort; we had a 3-day rummage sale, donated the rest to charity, Mom sold the house and the new owners have totally refurbished it. It looks wonderful now.
Anyway, because of the way I grew up and the condition the house eventually got it, I'm super-picky about keeping stuff. (I used to be worse when I was single; being married has mellowed me out a little bit, as did going through a fire 3 months after we got married.) But every so often, I go through a period of purging....a few months ago, it was books, CD's, movies, and jewelry. Today I went through my closet and filled a box of clothes for our church rummage sale. Now I'm sorting stuff in my scrapbook area in the office, which hasn't been done since before we moved here. Then I'll relax a while until I start to feel like the clutter is piling up again.
I am a avid watcher of hoarders when i have tv which I don't now. I like to watch that because it scares me into getting rid of things. 3 things at a time is great and shouldn't be to hard. This summer I have a huge task with parting with 3/4 of my stuff to be able to make the journey home, It will be worth it. I love you Brenda and I cherish our friendship. I understand your love of Madrid and I believe you understand my love of Kentucky. I love how we can be different yet so close. You n Zara have a great week
ReplyDeletewell, I was planning on getting rid of excess stuff but this weekend added alot more instead
ReplyDeleteI do admire any one who attempts to de-clutter. I've been trying to de-clutter and cut down on my belongings for a couple of years now. The scary thing is my small house still seems full despite the van loads of books, CDs and assorted cast offs sent to charity shops. And that was AFTER I sold most of my wardrobe on eBay!. With me it seems to be an ongoing process.
ReplyDeleteI think it is an on-going process always. Just hope we are making more headway than not
ReplyDeleteDefinitely an ongoing process.
ReplyDeleteGreat comment--all the way through.
ReplyDeleteYes, flylady does have some great tips and receipes and such
My grandfather saved a lot-maybe because of depression-- foil, bottles, everything. Many did than. In case of need-even to sell
But why do we?
I do the same as you at times. Plurge and de-clutter. You just reminded me of movies, albums etc--another area that builds up.
Baby steps. That's what FlyLady says. She also says "you can do anything for 15 minutes." (My mother always says, "how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time." Same principle, a little more graphic, LOL!)
ReplyDeleteYou just get in the habit of saving things that were once special to you and don't stop to re-evaluate whether each one is STILL special to you. I try to look at things with fresh eyes, and sometimes ask myself, "what would happen if it were gone?" That helps a whole lot.
ReplyDeleteI've been doing some cleaning in my closets and store room too lately: it's funny to discover each time how some junk has gathered in one place and the other and there's this and that you wouldn't necessarily need.
ReplyDeleteAnother thing that always makes me laugh is when I clean the box where I have all the important paper and documents. I did yesterday evening and can you believe that I found three fast food restaurant advertisements, a few bills which were three or four years old and some empty draft paper sheets which were totally meaningless. Why in the earth do we store such things?! Oh well, it's funny...
Thought I would come back to this. I am in the process of having whole house painted, so a good time to de-clutter more.
ReplyDeleteAnd see what some mentioned again. I did bring my dishware down. Took a good look at the misc sheets and such too.
And some things I like--I like waterbirds--I had to look at how many I had--and question how many do I need.
Got some boxes ready to go.
I am a book nut so had to get a bit ruthless there. Think I can do more too. Second time around
Great post-- very on going
Laugh above--yes sometimes I come across some advertisment I saved (for years !!!--) why do we
Looks like we are all on the same wave length here. After my last )backbreaking) move, I decided I would NEVER move things that are stored again. The local Freecycle people love me, I think. lol One box at a time.......
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